Your anniversary day should be the highlight and most unforgettable event of the year as it pertains to your relationship. No questions asked. Sometimes we take things for granted as we go through our life’s journey, and even momentous occasions such as our anniversaries are not as highly regarded. If you aspire to maintain an enriching relationship with your man or woman, don’t make the mistake of making that important day a low priority. Your goal is to make each and every anniversary day an affair to remember.

To help you plan for that special day, here are some anniversary do’s and don’ts:

1. This is an exclusive event, the one moment which must include just the two of you. If you have children, you need to make daycare plans ahead of time. A backup babysitter would be beneficial in the event your original plan doesn’t pan out. Other housemates will need to make alternate plans and vacate the premises should you decide to celebrate at home.

2. Don’t wait until the eleventh hour to book your lunch or dinner reservations if the plan is to wine and dine at your favorite café or fancy restaurant. It’s advisable to make reservations in advance to avoid any last-minute snafus. Otherwise, you may end up in the midst of an unnecessary argument.

3. If you live in an area where traffic is an issue, allow yourselves plenty of time to get to your place of destination. You want to make this moment as pleasant and stress-free as possible.

4. Don’t pick a fight. If you need to address any concerns which could potentially lead to a disagreement, wait after your anniversary celebration. There is a different place and time for such discussions; definitely not during your anniversary. Ideally, your aim is to strive for a perfect day, evening, or weekend of fun and romance.

5. Look and feel your best. Remember, you are celebrating the anniversary of your first encounter, your first date, or wedding day, so dress to impress and leave all your worries behind for a joyful occasion.

6. Don’t talk about anything negative. Complaining about work drama, family squabbles, financial problems, and the like should be discussed at a different time. If you feel the need to state an opinion or bicker about something, save it for later. Instead, mention the positive things about your relationship and what’s keeping your love for each other stronger than ever.

7. Say “I love you” and compliment your partner on his/her appearance, accomplishments, successes, and everything you admire about that person. Express your love by enumerating all the wonderful qualities he/she possesses and the reasons why you love him/her. After all, it’s your anniversary and your partner should be treated like a king or queen even more so during this special occasion.

8. Don’t rehash bad memories. Alternatively, talk about the good old days. Stroll along memory lane… how you were spellbound when you first met, your many laughs together, your honeymoon, vacations, to name a few.

9. If your anniversary plans include a trip for two at an exotic location somewhere in the Caribbean, for example, make sure you organize it well in advance. Create a checklist of things to do for a smooth and hassle-free holiday.

10. Don’t forget to buy a gift that comes from the heart for that special someone.